The story of Teacher
by FH_ai
The story of burlesque teacher. He is so honest. He could not let something
pass the wrong way. He really disagrees with the system of government. There
are many falsehoods there. However, he is not someone having good attitude as a
teacher. He really likes to rebahie his students. If he thinks their act has
already gone wrong. That is true if the teacher try to make their students to
admit their mistake, but should it be rude? We could find the story in ourlife.
When we could not teach our students softly, when we should use all the supply
of our energy to make them want to listen us. Sometime we use threat to face
them. We are able to make them listen us at that time, but not for the next
time. Moreover, if we just say it and do not apply and if they really do the
mistakes and are directly aware that it is just threat. They will repeat the
same mistake again and again.
I am not one of the teachers who is able to face the students who are always called troublemaker. Sometimes i make some debates with them to make them keep silent and try to make much communication, sometimes they share much and day by day, they could keep their attitude to us and they are closer than before, and also directly the relationship between teacher and students will more than as the professionalism. We will know deeply each other. it could not pass just a day but it need several days for them. Actually, making them unactive in the class is not the mind purpose of this but making them pay attention of the subject is the aim. As a teacher, i like if my students talk much but not when i explain the subject to them because if they do, i have to leave the class by husky voice.
All teachers exactly has their own experiance to face troublesome in their class. Hope all could share all the experience and we could make the wiser decision to teach our students
Please add sura to prove that all anything connect to qur’an.
I am not one of the teachers who is able to face the students who are always called troublemaker. Sometimes i make some debates with them to make them keep silent and try to make much communication, sometimes they share much and day by day, they could keep their attitude to us and they are closer than before, and also directly the relationship between teacher and students will more than as the professionalism. We will know deeply each other. it could not pass just a day but it need several days for them. Actually, making them unactive in the class is not the mind purpose of this but making them pay attention of the subject is the aim. As a teacher, i like if my students talk much but not when i explain the subject to them because if they do, i have to leave the class by husky voice.
All teachers exactly has their own experiance to face troublesome in their class. Hope all could share all the experience and we could make the wiser decision to teach our students
Please add sura to prove that all anything connect to qur’an.
Types of Parental Control 1
by FH_ai
Based on the sura of lukman who
educates by full of care to his children to love Allah so they become the good
boys who have good attitudes that should be models for all adult today. The
attitudes is surely wanted by many parents inworld. To reach this way really depends on how the parents educate their
children and how their parental control is. So;According to Diana Baumrind in
C. Drew Edwards, Ph.D’s book divide parental control into 3 types;
Authoritative, Authoritarian, and permissive parental contol.
1.Authoritative parental control
The Authoritative parents give love and emotional support with structure and guidance in growing their children. They have to not only listen actively and attentively but also make time for positve meeting continously for their children. Parents with this type let their children decide what they want and encourage them to build attitude and their own special interest. These are better than trying to press the children with hard rules. The parents who use this approach always examplize about the balence between care and the attitude which someone needs to create the safely social life.Anauthoritative parental control engages honor to their children as an unique individu who is proper to be accepted and loved, even when they act abnormally.
The reasech for the last 30 years showed that chiildren who ware grown by authoritative parents have sefely self proud, self confidence, autonomous, and success in school. Children looks having emosional problem littel than the children who were parented in other parental types. They could face their stress well, struggle to reach their idea, belance self control with knowladge and intrest in all situation.
2.Authoritarian parental control
The authoritarian parental control press constraint and prohibition on positive response. The perents really appreciate the children who obey the rules to them and do not defy. The difference between “ I am the parent” and “ you are the children” is really clear and continue along with the children grown.
The authoritarian parental control tends to determine the rules without discussing with their children first. Parents do not determine about the interst, hopes and desire of their children. All decisions is stoped by sentence of parents “ because I said like that”. The authoritarian parental control begs regularity. They use punishment to hold discipline and easy to get mad and also their dislikeness to their children.
1.Authoritative parental control
The Authoritative parents give love and emotional support with structure and guidance in growing their children. They have to not only listen actively and attentively but also make time for positve meeting continously for their children. Parents with this type let their children decide what they want and encourage them to build attitude and their own special interest. These are better than trying to press the children with hard rules. The parents who use this approach always examplize about the balence between care and the attitude which someone needs to create the safely social life.Anauthoritative parental control engages honor to their children as an unique individu who is proper to be accepted and loved, even when they act abnormally.
The reasech for the last 30 years showed that chiildren who ware grown by authoritative parents have sefely self proud, self confidence, autonomous, and success in school. Children looks having emosional problem littel than the children who were parented in other parental types. They could face their stress well, struggle to reach their idea, belance self control with knowladge and intrest in all situation.
2.Authoritarian parental control
The authoritarian parental control press constraint and prohibition on positive response. The perents really appreciate the children who obey the rules to them and do not defy. The difference between “ I am the parent” and “ you are the children” is really clear and continue along with the children grown.
The authoritarian parental control tends to determine the rules without discussing with their children first. Parents do not determine about the interst, hopes and desire of their children. All decisions is stoped by sentence of parents “ because I said like that”. The authoritarian parental control begs regularity. They use punishment to hold discipline and easy to get mad and also their dislikeness to their children.
Types of Parental Control 2
by FH_ai
The last written has already
talked about two types and the last type of parental control is talked bellow;
3.Permissive parental control
The permissive parental control does not give surely structure and limitation for the children. Baumrind in C. Drew Edwards’ book divide permissive parental control intomild-permissive and avoid- permissive.
The mild-permissive parents could be very warm, guidance, and responsive, but they give a few structures and guidances. Because the parents with this type tend to trust that the free expression and hope from heart is very important for psychology, they give a little understanding for their children to be adult and autonomous. They detemine some rules andhopes. When parents determine the rules and limitations, these tend to unclear and inconsistent.
The children who were grown by the mild-permissive parental control usually become the spoiled children. They tend to not compatible. They are really demand, less self-confidence, and less self- control. They could not detemine the aim and not enjoy the work which needs responsibility. They could be happy and be a good boy as long as all anything runs based on their desire. But they are easily frustration if their desire are fulfiled.
Yet, avoid-permissive parental control fail not only understanding but also enough emotional support for their children. he avoid-permissive parents could start with love and distinct, but then they are overhelmed face the negative responses from their children. They try to avoid the conflict and gradualy stay away from their emotional children.
3.Permissive parental control
The permissive parental control does not give surely structure and limitation for the children. Baumrind in C. Drew Edwards’ book divide permissive parental control intomild-permissive and avoid- permissive.
The mild-permissive parents could be very warm, guidance, and responsive, but they give a few structures and guidances. Because the parents with this type tend to trust that the free expression and hope from heart is very important for psychology, they give a little understanding for their children to be adult and autonomous. They detemine some rules andhopes. When parents determine the rules and limitations, these tend to unclear and inconsistent.
The children who were grown by the mild-permissive parental control usually become the spoiled children. They tend to not compatible. They are really demand, less self-confidence, and less self- control. They could not detemine the aim and not enjoy the work which needs responsibility. They could be happy and be a good boy as long as all anything runs based on their desire. But they are easily frustration if their desire are fulfiled.
Yet, avoid-permissive parental control fail not only understanding but also enough emotional support for their children. he avoid-permissive parents could start with love and distinct, but then they are overhelmed face the negative responses from their children. They try to avoid the conflict and gradualy stay away from their emotional children.